Nate, Aaron and I went for yogurt at the BEST yogurt place in Los Angeles yesterday, Yogurt Stop. It seriously is the best yogurt, and I will challenge anyone to a taste-off if needed. It's right in the heart of West Hollywood so there is always a plethora of man candy to look at. Too bad none of it is for me. At least Aaron and Nate had a good time.
We then went and met up with Drew to continue a kind of tradition of getting Chipotle margaritas on rainy Friday afternoons. The three of us hadn't seen Drew in what seemed like forever so it was a much needed catch-up session.
We mainly talked about relationships and what kind of problems age differences in relationships may cause. Drew is eight years older than his boyfriend so naturally things are coming up that only age difference can explain. Just the mere fact that his boyfriend hasn't had as much dating experience, and hasn't been out nearly as long as Drew has, makes things difficult. It's hard to say, though, that having such a large gap between ages is a good or bad thing. I feel like a few generations ago it was the norm to have a few good years between two people in a relationship...nowadays it seems like more and more people are sticking to a couple of years, if that. Unless, of course, you're a cougar.
Out of the four of us we all seemed to have very different viewpoints on the situation. Or just on dating in general. What to do, what not to do. How that would make someone feel, and how another might feel completely opposite in the same situation. We were all pretty different. Which just goes to show that dating is tough. You never know how someone new you're dating is going to react to different situations in a relationship. Everyone is different, and that makes dating and finding someone you can actually be with feel near impossible.
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